Start your children with chores early. Teach them to fold their laundry, make their beds, and pick up after themselves. At first, they will do it imperfectly but eventually, after enough practice, they will be able to easily complete these daily tasks.
As they grow bigger you can give them more responsibility: feeding animals, making meals, caring for younger siblings, cleaning bathrooms, etc.
One day you’ll realize that instead of spending the entire day cleaning the house by yourself, you and your children can all work hard for an ONE hour each week and the house will be beautiful and clean!
These are the fruits of your labor, mama. Do not give up. Hold them to a standard. Inspect what you expect. Teach them good habits around cleaning the house and caring for their belongings from a young age, it will be a blessing for them- and for you too!
